Okay well I was in luck that a gunshow was in town this weekend so I could try out the grips on some suggestions, as well as ask questions. Also hit the local gun store for the same reason today. Now I don't claim in anyway to be an expert on these findings, but they were my findings.
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Glocks: These guns of different sizes just don't feel right in my hands
Steyr M: Felt good, bit pricey, had some good features but there must have been something wrong with that particular gun - I looked at the side and saw daylight between the slide and frame. Maybe its supposed to be like that?
Star: The BM had a Good price, but parts are too hard to come by
Para Ordnance: Good 1911A1 9mm, but too expensive
Llama: Nothing but bad reviews from people around here
Ruger P-Series: Maybe someday in a decocker
Baby Eagle: Felt great, and I liked the weight of it, as well as the price.
Beretta: Doesn't feel right in my hands, and don't think I could aim with one hand (if necessary)
CZs: Same as the baby eagle, maybe in a decocker
Well the top of the list are; CZ decocker and a Baby Eagle. Wish I could fire them first to finalize it, oh well. I'll flip a coin or something later lol
Thanks for your feedback everyone!