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Old 09-17-2007, 09:42 PM   #21
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Ask questions to get them started because when there gone there history is gone too.
So, so true. I know a lot about my mom, but my dad is rather tight lipped. What I do know of him I got from my mother or by tricking him. He talks about his family and childhood sometimes, but not long ago I found out about a job he'd had before I was born... which would have been good to know since apparently some of his current health problems stem from it. I also recently discovered that my very anti-gun father apparently had his own rifle collection at some point.

My dad was drafted into the military during Vietnam. All I really know is that he was in the Army and I believe he was a Sargeant by the time he got out. He won't talk about it much and I don't ask because I understand. But I found out how to trick him once in a while and I get small tid bits about the Vietnam War. Mostly if I buy something that reminds him. I own two pairs of Jungle Boots from the local Military Surplus and the guy who owns the place occassionally lets me bring something home and return it because he knows what I'm up to.

I cherish everything my parents choose to tell me. You don't realize when you're young how important all those boring stories you get told over and over again really are.
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Old 09-17-2007, 11:02 PM   #22
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My father talked about his childhood a lot when I was a kid; he's a product of the Great Depression and I have a vivid picture of what it was like. And over the years I also got a pretty good dose of his military service in WWII.

On the other hand, I've started realizing lately that my children (and even my wife) know very little about my childhood, my military service, or the life I led before marrying at the age of forty one. A while back I was in the next room when someone asked my older son, "is your dad a veteran?" He answered, "yeah, but we don't know a (bleep)ing thing about what he did, because he never talks about it."

I didn't plan it that way, and I've never consciously tried to bury the past around my family. I guess I just don't relive the past much in my day-to-day conversation.
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Old 09-17-2007, 11:44 PM   #23
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Everything I read is why there should be family reunions.

Mine are very small now. I just have my two brothers and sisters, Yep, thats it out of a big family. 5 uncles in WW11, got to see the medals taken off of German soldiers that stupidly ran in front of the .06 bullets. We dont grieve...we talk about their lives.

I have one uncle and my mom is 89 years old. We all know we will die so dammit it...ENJOY IT WHILE YOU CAN!! I really mean that too.
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